I Made a Post on Instagram that Went Viral: This is How To Be Your Authentic Self
- Nani
- Mar 30
- 4 min read
Updated: Apr 9

Authenticity, Growth, and Compassion: Embracing the Journey
In a world where presentation often takes precedence, it’s easy to become distracted by what we see on the surface. Social media, curated content, and the polished versions of ourselves we present to the world can make it hard to discern what’s real from what’s rehearsed. We often see the "put-together" version of people, their best selves on display for others to admire. But how often do we stop to wonder about the story behind that image? What is it that lies beneath the surface?
We find ourselves asking: How similar are the two? Is the public persona an accurate reflection of who someone truly is? And if there is a difference, what is the reason behind it? Is there a sense of ingenuity in the way we present ourselves, or is there something artificial in the way we curate our lives? Or perhaps, over time, has there been a level of spiritual growth that allows us to step into our truest, most authentic selves?
The Power of Letting Go
One of the most profound shifts we can experience is when we release judgment—not only on others but on ourselves. So often, we’re our harshest critics, questioning our worth, our journey, and whether we’re doing enough. But when we let go of this judgment, we open ourselves up to a flow of possibilities. We allow our paths to unfold naturally, without the weight of unnecessary expectations or constraints. Dr. David Hawkins writes about the power of letting go from the perspective of emotions and negative energy. I recommend his technique to help you master the higher levels of consciousness.
Leading with compassion—toward ourselves and others—creates an environment where exploration and discovery can thrive. This compassion serves as a permission slip to embrace the beauty of life as it is, without the pressure to fit a mold. Dr. Kristin Neff writes about the power of self-compassion leading to a more prosperous and aligned self. She says from within we are then able to find joy. It’s about discovering the world around us and the unique contributions we can make to it. Compassion allows us to see the possibilities rather than the limitations.
The Journey Is Unique to Each Person
The path to self-discovery is different for everyone. Some people are still in the process of figuring out who they are. For others, they may already have a sense of self, but they’re still working on understanding the depths of their own gifts and purpose. There are those, however, who have reached a place of clarity. They know who they are, they understand their unique gifts, and they know how to use those gifts to fulfill their purpose in the world.
What’s important to remember is that this is not a race, nor is it a final destination. The journey itself is where the magic lies. It’s not about the end goal, but about finding peace, growth, and fulfillment in each moment along the way. The act of discovering who we are, embracing our gifts, and using them with intention becomes a practice—a way of being in the world.
The Instagram Post
most of the time we only see the presentation, not the whole story, not the authenticity or the humanness, but the posed, 'put together' version.
and then we wonder how similar to the two are. is it one-in-the-same. is there a feeling of ingenuity. is there fake or false presentations. or has there been a level of spiritual growth that makes someone their truth.
when we release judgment on ourselves and others, we can let our paths flow as they must. when we lead with compassion, we give permission to discover a much beautiful world that we are meant to contribute to.
it's different for everyone. some are still trying to discover who we are. others know. and again others know who they are, they know their gifts, and they know how to use those gifts for their unique purpose. it's not an end destination, but the peace of the journey itself that becomes the need.
wherever you are on your journey, remember the work you do within will be the key.
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The Key Is Within You
No matter where you are on your journey, one thing is certain: the work you do within yourself will be the key to everything you desire. It is from within you will learn to be your authentic self. It is through inner growth, reflection, and connection with your true self that you unlock the door to a life of meaning, purpose, and fulfillment.
So, the next time you find yourself comparing your journey to someone else’s, remember that your path is yours alone. Don’t rush it. Don’t judge it. Let it unfold as it must. Whether you’re still discovering who you are or you’ve already found that sense of knowing, remember that the beauty lies in the journey itself.
And as you walk this path, lead with compassion—toward yourself and others. For it is through this compassion that we can create the world we are meant to contribute to: a world that celebrates authenticity, embraces growth, and honors the uniqueness of everyone.
Keep learning!
xx
Nani
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